You know the overused but very insightful cliché “never judge a book by its cover”? In the blog post “Literacy Privilege: How I Learned to Check Mine Instead of Making Fun of People’s Grammar on the Internet,” this is put to the test. While they say that good grammar is a sign of intelligence, this blogger clearly lays out why one should not judge another based on his or her grammar and she takes it a step further in saying that correcting other people’s grammar makes you nothing but condescending, elitist, and annoying.
This blogger used to consider herself a grammar snob. She would, as she bluntly put it, “rail and rip” people apart for using improper grammar. Four years ago, she was hired in a program that helps disadvantaged adults acquire fundamental literacy skills. She claims that this experience was not only eye opening, but also mind-opening. In this job, she learned that being nit-picky about the language skills of perfect strangers is “kind of an asshole move.”
She goes on to say when you hear someone using improper or even poor grammar, specifically on the Internet, consider these things. The writer may be dyslexic. He may have spent his childhood being shamed or belittled by his teachers and peers because his brain works differently from theirs. He might have come from an abusive home, where keeping his body and spirit together, not focusing on English studies, came first. She goes on to name more possible situations for this man’s poor grammar. She also looks at this from the other side. What if this man, with his poor grammar, likes to express his obnoxious opinions in childish ways and picks fights with anyone who disagrees. This scenario makes it far more tempting to criticize this man for his improper diction. However, there are problems with this approach as well.
Judgments about what is considered “right”, “good”, and “correct” in writing and grammar always – ALWAYS (as the blogger strongly emphasizes) – align with characteristics of the dialects spoken by privileged, mostly wealthy, mostly white people. We make judgments based on learned biases. An emotional attachment to a specific way of doing things can be responsible as well.
The issue of literacy is by no means trivial, either. The latest statistics from the International Adult Literacy Survey show that “nearly half of all North American adults cannot cope with complex written material of the sort that the other half of us take completely for granted.” This, according to the blogger, should be considered a national crisis.
Back to the one of the main points of not judging a book by its cover, we need to become more committed to finding better ways to engage with people whose opinions, experiences, and means of expressions are different from ours.
Correcting other people’s grammar - Do you agree? Do you believe that one’s grammar should be overlooked while looking for deeper meanings in what he or she is trying to communicate? Should we cease trying to correct other’s grammar as studies have shown that is does not truly improve grammar? Or is proper grammar and good diction a sign of intelligence that has to be considered when listening to one’s argument?